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Podcast 34: Men!

Men! This podcast is all about that moment of exasperation where women roll their eyes and utter the word “men” as though it were a swear word. It’s a sad fact that many men out there can behave like complete and total dicks when it comes to meeting women. This podcast episode casts a critical gaze over the vast array of dick moves men regularly perpetrate. We explore the reasons behind, impact of and ways of avoiding said dickishness. This episode was recorded while we were drinking wine. It helped.


Podcast 33: Panties and Frillies: An Interview With

Today we interview Kristina, CEO of, a business that sells beautiful lingerie for men. She explains the history of the company, what inspired the bold move to wanting to make men look pretty and she tells us some stories of acceptance and prejudice. Betaboy has been wearing xdress undies for a few weeks now and is a very happy camper. AlphaDomme has no complaints either, although imho she has spent a little bit too long marvelling at the pictures she received of gorgeous models in said attire. You have to check this stuff out. You’ll find it at


Podcast 32: Stealth Submission

In this episode we gab about stealth submission – or as AlphaDomme terms it, “stealth topping”. This is the idea that a submissive male can quietly sneak his submission into a vanilla relationship. We talk about why this tactic fails the great majority of the time and what better approaches a submissive guy can take if he desires to introduce power exchange into his relationship. Then our conversation takes a sharp left turn and shifts heavily into AlphaDomme’s and MissRose’s attitude toward penises, in their many and varied forms.


Podcast 31: Setting A Scene Part Two

Setting a scene – PART TWO. In this follow up scene, AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy play out the scene they had planned and then debrief on what it felt like. The recording quality is not brilliant (on account of the fact that it was recorded in a bedroom!) but you’ll hear a lot of screaming and laughing, which hopefully will make up for any technical deficiencies.


Podcast 30: Setting A Scene Part One

Setting a scene – PART ONE. AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy get together to talk in detail about setting a scene. What do guys like? What do women like? How do you find a middle ground? Where does safety fit in? How do you find creative new ideas? All good questions to discuss but our plans are far more ambitious. We go on to plan an actual, bona fide scene and in part two you will hear how it all goes down. Enjoy!


Podcast #29: Wanted

Wanted. After addressing some listener feedback, in this episode we talk about our poly adventures, and AlphaDomme’s most recent efforts at finding another submissive male with whom to share a relationship.

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Podcast #28: The Punishment Experiment

The Punishment Experiment. This episode captures a Sunday afternoon living room conversation. This week AlphaDomme and I stumbled into an interesting (and at times emotionally challenging) discussion about the nature of punishment in a FLR. On Sunday we sat down and reflected on everything we had gone over and decided. We thought we would give listeners a window on that conversation. The take home message from this discussion, we feel, is that the relationship must always take precedence over kink.


Podcast #27: Body Worship

In this episode we have the great pleasure of introducing Miss Rose, Betaboy’s new domme and AlphaDomme’s metamour. After Betaboy absolutely embarrasses himself gushing at how happy and lucky he feels to be recording a podcast with two mistresses in attendance we get down to the nitty gritty and talk about body worship: what it is, what makes it hot, how to do it and the mental spaces required to make it good. This is our first three way conversation and I think regular listeners will note the excitement as we tumble our way through this sexy discussion topic.


Podcast #26: Three Things

In this episode we talk about our favorite things, and spoilers: raindrops on roses do not get a mention. We also talk about a big change in our relationships status and offer some first impressions of our foray into female led polyamory.