Roles can be confusing in kink. You got your kajiras, your slaves, your tops, your bottoms, your pets, your toys your masters and mistresses and kinksters – to name but a few. In this episode we take a quick walk through the vast array of commonly used roles in the world of kink and offer our opinions on what they mean. If you are a newb to kink this episode is for you.Download
Men! This podcast is all about that moment of exasperation where women roll their eyes and utter the word “men” as though it were a swear word. It’s a sad fact that many men out there can behave like complete and total dicks when it comes to meeting women. This podcast episode casts a critical gaze over the vast array of dick moves men regularly perpetrate. We explore the reasons behind, impact of and ways of avoiding said dickishness. This episode was recorded while we were drinking wine. It helped.Download
Today we interview Kristina, CEO of xdress.com, a business that sells beautiful lingerie for men. She explains the history of the company, what inspired the bold move to wanting to make men look pretty and she tells us some stories of acceptance and prejudice. Betaboy has been wearing xdress undies for a few weeks now and is a very happy camper. AlphaDomme has no complaints either, although imho she has spent a little bit too long marvelling at the pictures she received of gorgeous models in said attire. You have to check this stuff out. You’ll find it at http://www.xdress.comDownload
In this episode we gab about stealth submission – or as AlphaDomme terms it, “stealth topping”. This is the idea that a submissive male can quietly sneak his submission into a vanilla relationship. We talk about why this tactic fails the great majority of the time and what better approaches a submissive guy can take if he desires to introduce power exchange into his relationship. Then our conversation takes a sharp left turn and shifts heavily into AlphaDomme’s and MissRose’s attitude toward penises, in their many and varied forms.Download
Setting a scene – PART TWO. In this follow up scene, AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy play out the scene they had planned and then debrief on what it felt like. The recording quality is not brilliant (on account of the fact that it was recorded in a bedroom!) but you’ll hear a lot of screaming and laughing, which hopefully will make up for any technical deficiencies.Download
In this episode we have the great pleasure of introducing Miss Rose, Betaboy’s new domme and AlphaDomme’s metamour. After Betaboy absolutely embarrasses himself gushing at how happy and lucky he feels to be recording a podcast with two mistresses in attendance we get down to the nitty gritty and talk about body worship: what it is, what makes it hot, how to do it and the mental spaces required to make it good. This is our first three way conversation and I think regular listeners will note the excitement as we tumble our way through this sexy discussion topic.Download
In this episode we talk about our favorite things, and spoilers: raindrops on roses do not get a mention. We also talk about a big change in our relationships status and offer some first impressions of our foray into female led polyamory.Download
First off in this episode we debrief (pun intended) on the Men Submit CFNM cocktail party. In short it was a riotously awesome success. Hurrah! Cock decoration and impact play for everyone. Then we spoke with Susan Wright of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom to get a sense of what they do and why they do it.
In this episode we talk with Eva Blake, a certified sexological body worker, about all things anal play. A lot of people out there (both ‘inserters’ and ‘insertees’) are drawn to anal play but find themselves a bit unsure of where to begin, what to expect and how to do it. In this podcast, Eva answers all these questions and then some. What positions work best? How to do it safely? What kinds of sensations can you expect? All shall be revealed.
In this podcast we get the ball rolling by talking about Kinkfest, a big kink event coming up in Portland. We’re both really, really, really, really excited about this event. (Really). We talk through some of the events they have lined up and generally enthuse about the “infamous” parties in our near future. If you are going to this event, look us up! We’d love to catch up for a drink. If you aren’t going to this event, consider going to this event! You can find a registration form here. But Hurry, the deadline is 18 March.