In this episode we gab about stealth submission – or as AlphaDomme terms it, “stealth topping”. This is the idea that a submissive male can quietly sneak his submission into a vanilla relationship. We talk about why this tactic fails the great majority of the time and what better approaches a submissive guy can take if he desires to introduce power exchange into his relationship. Then our conversation takes a sharp left turn and shifts heavily into AlphaDomme’s and MissRose’s attitude toward penises, in their many and varied forms.Download
Setting a scene – PART TWO. In this follow up scene, AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy play out the scene they had planned and then debrief on what it felt like. The recording quality is not brilliant (on account of the fact that it was recorded in a bedroom!) but you’ll hear a lot of screaming and laughing, which hopefully will make up for any technical deficiencies.Download
In this episode we have the great pleasure of introducing Miss Rose, Betaboy’s new domme and AlphaDomme’s metamour. After Betaboy absolutely embarrasses himself gushing at how happy and lucky he feels to be recording a podcast with two mistresses in attendance we get down to the nitty gritty and talk about body worship: what it is, what makes it hot, how to do it and the mental spaces required to make it good. This is our first three way conversation and I think regular listeners will note the excitement as we tumble our way through this sexy discussion topic.Download
In this episode we talk about our favorite things, and spoilers: raindrops on roses do not get a mention. We also talk about a big change in our relationships status and offer some first impressions of our foray into female led polyamory.Download
First off in this episode we debrief (pun intended) on the Men Submit CFNM cocktail party. In short it was a riotously awesome success. Hurrah! Cock decoration and impact play for everyone. Then we spoke with Susan Wright of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom to get a sense of what they do and why they do it.
In this episode we talk with Eva Blake, a certified sexological body worker, about all things anal play. A lot of people out there (both ‘inserters’ and ‘insertees’) are drawn to anal play but find themselves a bit unsure of where to begin, what to expect and how to do it. In this podcast, Eva answers all these questions and then some. What positions work best? How to do it safely? What kinds of sensations can you expect? All shall be revealed.
In this podcast we get the ball rolling by talking about Kinkfest, a big kink event coming up in Portland. We’re both really, really, really, really excited about this event. (Really). We talk through some of the events they have lined up and generally enthuse about the “infamous” parties in our near future. If you are going to this event, look us up! We’d love to catch up for a drink. If you aren’t going to this event, consider going to this event! You can find a registration form here. But Hurry, the deadline is 18 March.
This podcast is about how to write a post on a kink forum without the whole thing blowing up in your face. I know it sounds a bit negative, but a lot of people out there have been burnt by a negative reaction to a post submitted in an online forum like Fetlife, She Makes The Rules or even this site. Now don’t get us wrong – we think that the resources available to learn and talk about kink online are amazing and valuable. If you are new to kink (or even if you aren’t) one of the best ways to get the most out of life is to learn from other people and to get involved in communities of like minded people online.
The thing is, to get the best result and to avoid big, nasty unpleasantness you need to do it right. Get it wrong and there’s a good chance you could find yourself on the explody end of a blog grenade of insults, criticism and general bad karma. Life’s too short for this kind of unpleasantness! In this podcast episode, AlphaDomme gives you the scoop on three things you can do to minimize your risk of a kaboom moment.
In this podcast we talk about the chaotic, kinky frenzied fun of playing with pervertibles. ‘What are these pervertemawatchits of which you speak?’ I hear you ask with jowl-wobbling indignation. It’s easy really. Pervertibles are pretty much anything. Glad I could clear that up for you! Pervertibles are, in essence, any household “thing” that has been repurposed (or perverted if you will) to be a kink toy. The beauty of kink is that you can get creative. Sure you can spend thousands of dollars at your local kink store purchasing everything that inserts, inflates and incapacitates … or you could just raid your kitchen drawers! That is what this podcast is all about: having fun with the stuff you have to hand.
In the interests of academic rigor (and just because she likes being mean to me) in this podcast AlphaDomme demonstrates the usage of several such home items on me, and I in turn offer thoughtful critique by saying “aaargh!” at varying pitches and levels of wimpishness. The show notes below are intended to be a handy catalog to spark your own ideas. Have fun! And we would love to hear about your pervertible adventures.
In episode 17 of the Men Submit podcast we touch on a somewhat contentious topic. We talk about play that is “forced”. That is to say, those activities that are based around a scene in which the submissive has no control. We talk about why this can be such a difficult topic to negotiate and come up with some ideas for how to traverse the murky waters.Download